I’m a coach.
That’s it. Any additional fanfare seemed silly, so I left it out. But at the same time, it’s a BIG deal. I’ve found something I love, and I’m pursuing that dream.
So many people have either assumed I mean acting and dialect coaching or asked what I mean by “a coach,” that I think it’s important to clarify. I mean that I help people find ways to live in line with their purpose, values and desires. I cheer them on, I challenge their assumptions about their limitations, I support them wholeheartedly, I love them deeply. I honor the possibilites they hold within, their discoveries and roadblocks, their stucknesses and their growth. And I adore every second of it.
I realized in late March that coaching was a possibiity for me, so I did some research. I bought a really great book. All of those things pointed to coaching being a good fit for me. (In fact, while reading the book, I realized how much the Co-Active coaching model looks like the way I worked in the classroom. Co-Active coaching allows me to fully be who I really am.)
Then I got a coach myself, to see if the process actually worked. What I discovered is just how much you can figure out in 45 minutes to an hour, given the opportunity to focus on an issue that’s bugging you with a person who asks really helpful questions and occasionally tells you how great you are, using specific examples. Especially when that person gives you homework and holds you accountable for the decisions you make. The truth of an idea is laid bare by a coaching session. I know what I really want and how I intend to go about getting it as a result of one.
I also feel energized after a coaching session, strong and powerful and ready to take on the world. And the things we talk about stay in my head. I continue thinking of the things we discussed long after the session is over.
As a coach, I get to experience the other side of that relationship. I get to watch clients figure out who they are, who they want to be, and I get to know some really amazing people. It’s a truly great job, one I feel called to do. Near the end of my first workshop weekend with the Coaches Training Institute, one of my classmates said, “I feel for the first time in a long time like I’m alive. Like this is who I’m meant to be.” That’s exactly how I feel, and according to my instructors and clients, I’m really good at it. I feel that in my heart, but it’s nice to hear it from them as well.
So this is me announcing the opening of Corage Coaching (no, that’s not a typo). Corage is old French/middle English for courage. But it’s the old-fashioned sort. According to a lovely old (massive) dictionary of mine, it means the following:
1. The attitude or response of facing and dealing with anything recognized as dangerous, difficult or painful, instead of withdrawing from it (see courage).
2. Spirit; desire; temper.
I’ve always led with my heart, this is just putting it out there in the open and inviting my clients to join me.
Currently, I’m looking for clients. I offer free initial one-hour sessions; so many clients are new to coaching that it seems unfair to make them pay for something they might not like or want. (Though it’s so empowering you will love it, I promise.) It’s confidential. I won’t even discuss that you are my client with anyone else, much less share what we talk about.
Coaching is not something that has to be done in person; I’m coaching one of my clients over the phone. So if you or someone you know, would like to try coaching, regardless of where you live, we can make that happen.
I’m still trying to figure out how WordPress works. I can’t get an email link in my sidebar yet, but you can reach me at coragecoaching@gmail.com. I’d love to give you a sample session. Coaching is pretty amazing stuff.